Respond (Visi - on) bility

What you need to become a man in the real life? Mature on age? Smart enough to made final decision or You just walking along the time and realize that this environment who made you?!.

Path of life in every man are different certainly as the line that has been stretch from the birth line to the dead line. there are fate and destiny which following us, many process that we should pass it through since our first cry and breathe the air.

A baby was born,  new creature lived and starting his own journey to the future, cried, eat, first time spelled words, first step of walked, smile then mad also hate. Love and tender of our parent and every body love us that time, no thought of life or what is going to happen with the future or even what should we eat the next days. We just didn't care about the thing  as we known as true life in the adult world. 

The connection more wide when we grown up, we're entering the second phrase of life, being a child where the world was a place for us to play and made thing in our life become colorful as we want, This connection and fellowship of human being already started when we knew what is friend and what is enemy in our games we played. Some kids are passed this phrase become of family matter or economic matter so they never had time to play. 

Being normal kids was good! (The first sentences)

Every kids was singing and went to the elementary school together, rode a bicycle and laugh after time. All we need is just be a good boy where we never asked and always made our parent happy so there always a smooth ways in front of us. while some kids didn't, he never had a friend because every friend he met always make a fun on him, He doesn't have parents who stayed with him where he can proud of in front of his friend. 

All childhood was taken inside of the sorrow where the song was about normal life in dream and unknown tender, psychologically this kid was broke a part.

The third Phrase of being man is teenager, where we found first love and started to feel heartache. We started to know how it feel to love, hate because of love and all the thing that influence our thought about loving and a way to find what is really love.

Being normal teenager also good (The second sentence)

The next level was we're grew up as an adult who lived from the past and starring the future, we're became mature because of our environtment and never asking about the time. This level has developt many asumption and vision about love and life, you're standing in between where in front of you life has seems. being in one family that you're developt and being hurt because of your past is following you. About first love, about thing that made you hurt, family matter and everything that actually colorful but what you seen then is only grey area. Doubt, fear of decission, resistance of consequences and many thing that become measure for the next step.

You found out as man that holding responsibility on your shoulder that you're carried out wherever you go. You're become young backbone of your environment where you're responsible for your friend, for your family and the absolute is responsible for time.

Time is absolute where we will not able to stopped it or forward it as we wished in every human dream or as seen on television. we're dreaming to be someone who can crossing the time where we able to know our future and fixed our past but then, NO MORE QUESTION ABOUT LIFE? so where's the good thing of this?.

What made you? visionary, a fighter, or just an empty space that you're never grown up anyway? as a man, what would you think as a respond? to your vision and any ability that you able to take but you never had enough courage to made it become a fate.

What are we? is it being extra ordinary was better than  to be normal (the last sentence)

another BIG QUESTION????