Yesterday I had a discussion with my old friend about something that is often forgotten but it always made us weak and strength at the same time, as human instinct that indeed we're need something called love, so we're discussed and focused on word "love" seen from our glasses and our self perception, but in fact love is also universal which mean is it not only boundaries on someone love someone but then it spread to someone love to something or even it more wider if we add something inside "beloved, loving, loved and the love it self".
What made us survive of all this time? is it really love which saving us? but saving from what and why it need to save? is it being life that difficult? or it only our feeling as human which never enough on something so we always trying to fulfill our needs or our will? and so many question that will be appear, one question connected to the other question and it certainly will never end till the world is stopped!.
We're loving our life, that's for sure, why we're loving our life? because by loving our life we'll know our essence or present of our in the middle of life called world or earth and living in the middle of society called a group of human presence. Some people choose to become superior to beat inferiority, some people choose to keep silent and enjoying their life without care to others and other thing that they are choosing a path as their principal of life. so seeing their choice to do their life is it because of love, surely I would answer it yes as perfectly. why? if they didn't love their love I'm sure they wouldn't choose anything and choose to die.
Then a question appear is why some people choose to kill them self or some people is suffering because of what their love, someone or something that they are in love with but then it become hurt each other because of many factors (materials, feelings etc). Is it because we're hate life as the opposite of we're loving life? I would answer it stupidity!
If we're talking about that maybe it also never end or we can say it too wide to be discuss, so both of us in a limited discussion we gave a boundaries to discuss about "finding another you" in context we're loving someone and we loosing someone.
In our discussion before we're talking about loving someone, first we must know what love that we gave, and as a base we also have same question "what is love actually?" Both of us agree that love between human is love that appear from two person heart, a man love a woman they are getting married, have children and getting old, perfect! so how about if a man love a woman but before the married they were broke up? Is it fate or surely they are not a mate? I'm sure question is the simple answer of all the reason why a couple could be broke up. We're will not talking about how a couple can be break but how they are after the break.
Break a relationship or divorce is not good and even it can be bad, physically and mentally and even sometimes it can made someone became traumatic person of getting another relationship. The bad thing of break up in a relationship is if we're still in love to the person that person who has cut down your relation, why they are break up then? also there's too many factors would answer it. but The most question of all of this is "How can we forget a man or a woman that we loved?" Is it true by searching another love can buried the older memory or is it true when we searching something new we're looking and finding the same character and the same type of man or woman that has present in our life to replace the another one?
My friend said "Finding another you is a truly bull shit!, there's no man or woman who are the same even he or she is twin!! That's the fact", Well I should agree with those statement. why? I shouldn't explain about this one of course, I'm sure everyone knows this thing, but the question is why some people still do this to replace someone who ever present in their life? Is it stupidity? or he/she just don't know? Interesting right?
So what discussion actually about this "finding another you" anyway?
We will not stand in the same river at different time, why because the time is running and the important thing is the water is flowing, even we're standing in the same place, the water will be different! FACT!!!
Need more discussion? Or I called it STUPIDITY? LOL!!
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